KayaYogini

I often feel like people are going through the same things in their lives. When I feel like things are stuck and it’s hard to make a decision, it seems like everyone I talk to feel the same way. For many months now, the feeling of stuckness has been present in my life. It feels like things are not falling into place. Have you been feeling this way too? 

Sometimes life is going slow. That’s fine as long as you like it where you are. However, at times we are looking for progression, we are working towards a goal, we are planning to move and no good options are present. 

Life is a mystery. Sometimes it feels like life has its own will, it’s own wishes, it’s own intelligence too. No matter how impossible something seems or how unlikely it seems, life can make things happen in the most surprising ways. We all have heard some stories that are just unbelievable. Too good to be true. It’s almost like we don’t believe it. Life is full of small and big surprises and adventures. It’s a bumpy road which we just have to follow, we can’t control where life wants to take us. How fun would that be anyways? What would you need other people for if we were controlling everything? Where would the magic in our lives be? 

Trying to control something that cannot be controlled is doomed to fail. At some point you will be forced to let go. I believe that it’s better to get unboard and be curious about where life wants to take me, rather than trying  to force things to happen. Trying to control things makes my life feel rigid. Letting go and taking life with a bit more ease makes it all feel easier and more enjoyable. Be open to new possibilities. Sometimes we think we want something while in fact, life wants to give us something else. Have you ever experienced getting something different than you wanted, only to find that you really like it and that what you thought you wanted, you don’t care about anymore? I think that when you feel stuck in your life, it’s time to let go and open up to new possibilities. Maybe there is something better for you waiting for you to discover it. Sometimes, maybe you need to dream bigger. The most extraordinary things can happen to you. 

At times it feels like life is mundane and we are just waiting for something more fun to happen. Something that feels more purposeful. Or maybe we just need to switch up our routines. Just doing a small thing differently can change the way you feel. Going to a different café, eating something new for dinner, taking a different route than you usually do on your way home from work. Remember that what’s on the outside is a reflection of your inside. If you change how you feel, you change what is around you too. 

Another tip if you feel stuck is to tune into your heart. Sometimes, like I said, we want something, but life wants to give us something else. Tune into your heart and feel into what you really want. What feels easy, enjoyable, and meaningful to you? Maybe there is a third solution you haven’t thought about. Maybe you can take a small step in that direction? Remember that once something gains momentum it will start to move forward by itself and you don’t have to push hard in order for it to move forward. It will feel like a flow. 

Lastly, enjoy where you are, do things that you like. Put something in your calendar that you can look forward to. We are here to have fun and enjoy our lives. So do what you love, cut away things you don’t have to do that you don’t like. Maybe there is someone else in your life who loves to do the things that you dislike and vice versa. 

Many businesses started just from someone being passionate about something and starting to do that thing small scale. You never know where you are gonna end up, but if you follow a path of ease and fun, you will end up with ease and fun. If you follow a path with struggle there will always be more struggle. Let go, take a break and see what inspiration emerges within you. Follow your heart and have fun!. Comment down below if this is something you have been going through!